14

I have a story behind number 14. Yes, it's the date that me and ahl decided to start our journey together. 2007. Almost a week ago, when I'm going to a bookstore and for the first time I bought wedding magazine. Yeay! "le mariage" magazine vol 7 April - June 2012. I was read one of the interesting article. I will share to you a little bit..

 Banyak Pikiran

Teks: Vina Sianipar

"Emang semakin dipikirin, jadi semakin ngga mau nikah," begitu yang kerap kali saya dengar saat beberapa kali tenggelam dalam obrolan tentang pernikahan... Tapi saya selalu penasaran, memangnya seseorang harus berhenti memikirkan pernikahan-dari segala sisinya- agar tidak kehilangan selera untuk menikah? bukankan keputusan untuk menikah seharusnya lahir dari pikiran dan pertimbangan yang matang? yang di barengi rencana untuk menghadapi kondisi-kondisi baik juga buruknya? karena setau saya, berencana untuk menikah sama saja seperti merintis sebuah sebuah usaha. perlu cinta, rencana, visi dan misi, partner bisnis berkualitas, waktu dan proses melakukan analisa SWOT, mencermati kemungkinan-kemungkinan, menimbang potensi resiko, menghitung cost dan benefit, hingga mengurus legalitas.. Bukan over thingking, tapi pernikahan memang njelimet. Karena pemikiran yang multidimensi, yang komprehensif, yang melihat "segala sesuatu tak melulu indah" itu merupakan fondasi kuat membangun bisnis, juga pernikahan. Anda tentu tidak ingin bangkrut ditengah jalan, kan? apalagi cerai?!


Jangan abaikan pikiran dan perasaan Anda tapi jangan juga diperbudak oleh keduanya. Jika ada sesuatu di dalam hubungan atau di diri pasangan yang mengganjal sampai mendapatkan bukti bahwa hal tersebut nyatanya bukan masalah berarti. Perspektif itu perlu, mengingat hal negatif sekecil apa pun bisa berpotensi sebagai masalah saat masuk ke dalam rumitnya kehidupan rumah tangga. Utarakan setiap "kecurigaan" yang ada kepada pasangan, lalu pastikan ia mendengar, memahami, dan bersama Anda mau mencari bukti atau solusi.

So, because that article I ask AHL some silly questions hihi.. :p

Me: why do you want to marry me?

AHL: klise pertanyaannya, klise juga jawabannya

Me: *muka bete* *padahal bbm-an* ya kenapa? why do u think I'm the person who will be ur wife, mom for ur children and the person who will be with u till grow old?

AHL: pasti kamu udah tau jawabannyalah dan lagian kamu nanya mulu

Me: *nangis guling-guling* 

AHL: Aku yakin kamu bisa menjadi apa yang bikin kita bahagia

Me: DEG

AHL: kalau takut mending gak usah pacaran dari dulu. Kadang aku gak ngerti jalan pikiran kamu tapi aku berusaha ngertiin. Makasih. 

Me: Aku juga. Kadang aku gak tau apa yang kamu mau but I'm trying to understand. tapi makasih buat apa?

AHL: sudah aku duga pasti bakalan ditanya hehe. Pokoknya selama aku pacaran cuma kamu yang bikin aku gimana gituu ;)

Me: *blushing* :")

(antara gombal atau gak, pokoknya terharu)

.....

Kali ini, dengan cara yang Anda tahu, dengarkanlah suara hati dengan lebih seksama lagi. Saat berpikir tentang pernikahan, jangan takut merasa "ragu", "ada yang salah", atau "tidak nyaman", apalagi memungkirinya. Karena apa pun yang Anda rasa bisa jadi mengandung kebenaran...

Jika keputusan-keputusan dalam hidup ini didasari oleh kerja keras, nurani yang bersih, kemantapan hati, pertimbangan bijaksana, pemikiran logis dan realistis, entah kapan, bahagia pasti sudi mampir.

Happy Anniversary, Sweetheart.

140207  - 140612

Go Yogurt!

Hi everybody. This is May. Feeling like time going faster. The first thing I should doing is ... losing my weight. Huh. Oh come on you know that's it no easy but it's a must! Hup..Hup..Hup... I will start to control my food from tomorrow. Can you believe it? Hmm, exactly I don't really believe it. Haha.

Almost three weeks ago, Me and my little sister, Cindy, was going to Sam and Jolly Cafe soft opening. Thanks to mba Finny for the invitation :). Actually, mba Finny is one of my client hihi. So, it's a new restaurant that almost all of the menu made by yoghurt. For me, I don't really like yoghurt, I like something sweet than sour. BUT, they have a cool and colorful design on their store with the concept is Food AdFUNture by Sour Sally. If you looking for some place with new experience and new menu, you should go here :))

the appetizer

Na-Go-Yo (Nasi Goreng Yoghurt)

Yummy Dessert

 

colorful of macarons

Strawberry Yo-Tea on a jar

(forgot the name of this menu)

outdoor

the interior

Bring me home!

the toppings

My sist, Cindy, got this for home. Yo-Tea Mango and Yo-Stick. Yummy!                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      

Everything Gonna Be Alright

Hola! Hoaam..Long time no write this blog. Truly, many things, stories and pictures that I want to share in this blog. Buuuut cause sometimes I'm too lazy so yaa just like you read now :p

First, I already make one decision of my life. If God want, it will be held on the beginning of next year. Hm.. maybe not only my decision but us. Hm.. not only us but our family. We plan but God will be decide.

Second, yesterday was my family name gathering or we usually called: Bona Taon Tampubolon. Tampubolon is my family name. Yes, I'm Bataknesse and I proud of it. In this event, every people who have same family name are invited to come and enjoy the party together/ We are dancing, eating, laughing and also gossiping hihi. Tampubolon is be divided into three part; Mataniari, Rajaniapul, and ... Hmm I think I'm forget the last part. OMG... hahha. I'm sorry. I will tell you if I'm already know :P

So here some picture, not describe about that party but I want to introduce my cousin. His name is Farel. He has a chubby cheek and big stomach, wohooo.

me. Farel. my sist

OMG >.<

Good news:
I'm receiving an invitation to come in soft opening Sam and Jolly at Central Park on 27 April (6 pm - 8 pm). Thanks to mba Finny :)
 

 Good night, people!

Me too.

Everybody have they own want. Me too. Now, how to combine my want, his want, and they want? When everybody want not in one line, what is the best solution? My head almost explode cause of that. This is my life. I'm undergoing it but I can't decided my solution alone. I'm just trying to do the best and make everybody happy. Me too.


Happy weekend, people! :)

 

Hello, Sing!

I'm feel so lucky. For almost only six months I have been worked at this office, I can enjoyed a nice trip to Singapore. This is my first time too to going aboard. and also for free too. Yay! Yes, this is office outing program. Because my office is just a small company and only have a few employee. Ehm, I think not a few but only seven person. Hahaha. It's include our office boy and messenger. Plus one with the owner. Enjoy.. :)

Dear AHL,

You're already become part of my life

Since 2004, you came and always bothering me.

and in 2007 I decided to start with you.

Now.

We are in 2012. Still together. 

I love your laugh. your think. your heart. your kindness. your guidance. your hug.

I hate your madness. when you hiding something from me. your silent. and your mystery. 

Overall, thank you.

Happy Birthday, AHL

I love you ...

Mr. AHL

My Grad's (again)

Dear God,
I'm so thankful for everything you do to me and finally I can finished it. From the first time, in not really interest to join this class. Many consideration that make me feel too difficult to face it. But. Now. Look. I can! Hopefully this is can be my next step to get a wonderful future.

This is for you. Mom and Dad.

December 8 2011, Ball Room The Ritz-Carlton Hotel Pasific Palace

I'm so thankful to have my napo friends. Always unpredictable. Always acceptable. Always stand by. I'm really appreciated with what they have to do to me. Thank you, friends!

Left to Right: monica, nella, pungky, me, winda

Really like that cake. Blueberry Cheese Cake. Yummy!

While ahl didn't came to my grad, I know that he stand closed to me. This is for you too.

Study hard. Work hard. Pray hard. Play more hard :p

For you.

I'm not a perfect lover. I say what's on my mind. I start fights. I get jealous and sometimes I don't wanna understand things to avoid pain - @citahapsari

I'm demanding. I'm childish. I'm moody. But there are three things I'm sure about. I'm faithful, sweet and when I chose him, its only him - @citahapsari

2: Finally!

I'm so thankful. Really. Thank's God. Finally I can finished my thesis and now just waiting for the graduation on December. I really learned many things from making this thesis. When you do something with a half of your heart, you will get only a half too. So, whatever you do, do with all of your heart.

:')

Thank you to my parents, sisters, family, friends and also my ahl. 

Me love you

<3

1: May I?

HI! Yeah, I know I'm not blogging for almost a month. My false. I have too many stories for share. Too many. First, about a chair. A month ago, my office mate, Mba Ika, was invited me and another office mate to having lunch together. Actually this is not a first time. Thanks to mba ika :). We are having lunch in Food Hall Kitchen, Senayan City. I love there chair! Wohoo..

dear my future husband, may I have that chair in our future dining room? From your future wife :)

my first time to taste salmon. EUH! Me don't like :|

Goodbye, Meme.

Yesterday, Cindy, my lil sister, got a mourning news. Her friend, Melinda or Meme, was passed away. I know, she was very sad because Meme was her closed friend when they was in a elementary school. Cindy told that Meme is a good friend, nice and sweet friend. God blessing you, Meme. We love you :')

Life is not always sweet like a cupcakes.

thanks mba ii for a yummy chocolate cupcakes. me want more :p

 

Hopefully, all of you will enjoy you weekend just like you enjoy a delicious food. Just like me and ahl :9

Feel so hungry hihi

At Lapo Ni Tondongta, Senayan

HAPPY WEEKEND, PEOPLE :)

Where' the point?

I still can't get where's the point of word I love you from boy to his girlfriend but that boy still spreading another love to another girl. How can?

Too much happiness can be a tear

Sometimes, when you feel too excited about something good out of your plan, you will feel so much happiness. But. There's anonymous said that "jangan terlalu senang nanti bisa nangis". It's true. Yes. So, watch out with your happiness. Don't forget to thankful for that and stay calm.

Anyway, this evening, ahl was invited me to try one of coffee shop in Sabang. Yes, Sabang16. Firstly, I know it from Twitter. Some people tell a good taste of Srikaya toast and coffee in this coffee shop. Also the atmosphere, comfortable, and a nice place for hangout. So, here I am and ahl. We trying because we are curious with what other people recommended about Sabang16. Not we exactly, but only me (hihihi)

Sabang16 - Kopi & Srikaya

Open 7:00 am, last order 10:30 pm, Close 23:00 pm

Jl. KH.Agus Salim (Sabang) no.16b Jakarta Pusat 

Phone: +62 21 31 926 726

Because I haven't a good camera yet, so I took this picture from here.

interior

Srikaya Toast idr 14.000 ++

In my opinion, it's true that the place is comfortable, cold but warm, nice place to have a chit-chat with friends or your gf/bf. Recommended. About the Srikaya Toast, I think it's a little bit too expensive and so-so lah. Nice toast bread, soft, and the grill is quite good. I think for the srikaya, srikaya from north sumatera is better than this one. Honestly. Maybe because the srikaya jam is too slight.

But, all of this is only in my opinion. Feel free for you to try it :)

Good night.

Simple but important

"Put away your blackberry when you spare quality time with someone."

Express Lunch

AHL was invited me to having lunch together today. I'm so excited because I almost forgot when we have our last lunch together. We decided to having lunch in Ragusa. A anciently Italian ice-cream store at Central Jakarta near to Monas. The best side is you can enjoy a smooth and delicious ice-cream with a train sound as a back sound :D

 Ice-cream Chocolate Sundaes 12.500

Sate Ayam 18.000

Mie Juhi 10.000

Unpredictable Romantic

I like the unpredictable things. Like when you don't think anything then something comes and make you surprised. Absolutely, it can be good sometimes bad. But I think, it's a good one :)

A few days ago, my AHL send me a song to my phone. Honestly, I never know even listen this song. But, the title make me feel ashamed and cause AHL rarely do something sweet like this so I named this moment : Unpredictable Romantic. The song is:

I Love The Way You Love Me - Eric Martin 

I like this part:

".... And I like the sound of your sweet gentle kiss
The way that your fingers run through my hair.

But I love the way you love me
Strong and wild slow and easy
Heart and soul so completely
I love the way you love me "

Thank you, AHL :)

Hello from 2011

I think have been a year I didn't touch this blog. The truth is I miss to write on this blog but The fact is I'm too lazy and don't have enough time. Now, I have my own internet connection on my room. Yes, finally. So, can we start?

The thing is I need something new and a mood-booster in my daily soooo... I decided to throw away some stuffs and rotated it to refresh my room. Now I like to enjoy my new stuffs position on my room.

BEFORE

looks so messy ya.


AFTER! Viola...

 

what do you think? Good enough ya
The best part is a sunshine can comes to touch your face with a warmness when you sitting there.

Nice :)

LONG TIME NO SEE YOU

HEY HOO.... :D

OK, so where do we start?

My last blog post in March and now it is August. It means it was passed almost five months. Aw!

Beberapa bulan ini memang sok menyibukkan diri dengan skripsi, maklum anak deadline. Jadi udah mau waktunya, dikejar sampe ngos-ngosan, sibuk sana sini, akhirlah sampai pada soft cover dan daftar sidang hari ini. 
Senangnyaaa...


Ok, cerita mengenai Twitter. I Heart Twitter.
lama-lama twitter ibarat 'ganja' soalnya bisa nyandu. hihi.
Seru. Menyenangkan. Menghibur. dan tempat curhat :P
yah.. kadang bikin bete karena satu dan dua hal.
but selebihnya membuat hati senang.


ada beberapa akun yang selalu menghiasi timeline gue tiap hari.
 salah satu yang paling menarik adalah..
@fiksimini > ceritanya tak diduga, tak disangka, bisa bingung, bisa ketawa. cerita fiksi mini versi gue udah dua kali yang di retweet (dari hampir 20 x mencoba T.T ya lumayan lah ya )
yang pertama 'lupa' yang kedua seperti ini..

'@fiksimini BINGUNG. Kenapa dompet yang kucuri tadi pagi ada foto ibuku?'

Nah looh.... ;P


gue juga mem-follow beberapa orang yang memberikan banyak tambahan pengetahuan, hiburan, informasi dan sebagainya. 
@panji @ndorokakung @FPIYeah (kocak!) @SarkasTwit @deelestari
serta beberapa teman dan saudara terkasih :)

follow me

 Ow ya , sempat membuat sebuah foto sebagai hadiah ulang tahun temanku tersayang yang ada di Bandung tanggal 8 Agustus lalu.
HERE WE GO!

dengan muka kucel, kusam, dan kumal

Happy Birthday to Winda Astria

  Nite :)

 

Kompas.com Music Corner

Kompas.com Music Corner

ini acara yang menarik sih sebenarnya karena biasanya artis pendukungnya lumayan bagus. Beruntung sekali hari Kamis lalu, saya dan andy limbong berkesempatan untuk menyaksikannya di Sky Dining, Plaza Semanggi

 ini infonya

I'm really happy because it's the first time, in 2010, I can watch my fav band for LIVE
as you know, I love...
White Shoes and The Couples Company


I like to see Aprilia Apsari, as a singer, with her blue flowers dress and the important things that I love how she makes a beautiful eyes with eye liner :P
She looks naturally and I really enjoy to see when she was dancing. 
Love it!


Let's check this picture, enjoy!

I love her ;)

the other stars are The Cash.

Mereka adalah Desta, Tora dan Vincent (sebenernya dia ada di sebelah kanan tora tapi ga kena foto hahaha )
Actually, they are quite good. I mean they are funny and have good music.


So, thanks to Andy Limbong :)
See you in another Kompas.com Music Corner


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