14

I have a story behind number 14. Yes, it's the date that me and ahl decided to start our journey together. 2007. Almost a week ago, when I'm going to a bookstore and for the first time I bought wedding magazine. Yeay! "le mariage" magazine vol 7 April - June 2012. I was read one of the interesting article. I will share to you a little bit..

 Banyak Pikiran

Teks: Vina Sianipar

"Emang semakin dipikirin, jadi semakin ngga mau nikah," begitu yang kerap kali saya dengar saat beberapa kali tenggelam dalam obrolan tentang pernikahan... Tapi saya selalu penasaran, memangnya seseorang harus berhenti memikirkan pernikahan-dari segala sisinya- agar tidak kehilangan selera untuk menikah? bukankan keputusan untuk menikah seharusnya lahir dari pikiran dan pertimbangan yang matang? yang di barengi rencana untuk menghadapi kondisi-kondisi baik juga buruknya? karena setau saya, berencana untuk menikah sama saja seperti merintis sebuah sebuah usaha. perlu cinta, rencana, visi dan misi, partner bisnis berkualitas, waktu dan proses melakukan analisa SWOT, mencermati kemungkinan-kemungkinan, menimbang potensi resiko, menghitung cost dan benefit, hingga mengurus legalitas.. Bukan over thingking, tapi pernikahan memang njelimet. Karena pemikiran yang multidimensi, yang komprehensif, yang melihat "segala sesuatu tak melulu indah" itu merupakan fondasi kuat membangun bisnis, juga pernikahan. Anda tentu tidak ingin bangkrut ditengah jalan, kan? apalagi cerai?!


Jangan abaikan pikiran dan perasaan Anda tapi jangan juga diperbudak oleh keduanya. Jika ada sesuatu di dalam hubungan atau di diri pasangan yang mengganjal sampai mendapatkan bukti bahwa hal tersebut nyatanya bukan masalah berarti. Perspektif itu perlu, mengingat hal negatif sekecil apa pun bisa berpotensi sebagai masalah saat masuk ke dalam rumitnya kehidupan rumah tangga. Utarakan setiap "kecurigaan" yang ada kepada pasangan, lalu pastikan ia mendengar, memahami, dan bersama Anda mau mencari bukti atau solusi.

So, because that article I ask AHL some silly questions hihi.. :p

Me: why do you want to marry me?

AHL: klise pertanyaannya, klise juga jawabannya

Me: *muka bete* *padahal bbm-an* ya kenapa? why do u think I'm the person who will be ur wife, mom for ur children and the person who will be with u till grow old?

AHL: pasti kamu udah tau jawabannyalah dan lagian kamu nanya mulu

Me: *nangis guling-guling* 

AHL: Aku yakin kamu bisa menjadi apa yang bikin kita bahagia

Me: DEG

AHL: kalau takut mending gak usah pacaran dari dulu. Kadang aku gak ngerti jalan pikiran kamu tapi aku berusaha ngertiin. Makasih. 

Me: Aku juga. Kadang aku gak tau apa yang kamu mau but I'm trying to understand. tapi makasih buat apa?

AHL: sudah aku duga pasti bakalan ditanya hehe. Pokoknya selama aku pacaran cuma kamu yang bikin aku gimana gituu ;)

Me: *blushing* :")

(antara gombal atau gak, pokoknya terharu)

.....

Kali ini, dengan cara yang Anda tahu, dengarkanlah suara hati dengan lebih seksama lagi. Saat berpikir tentang pernikahan, jangan takut merasa "ragu", "ada yang salah", atau "tidak nyaman", apalagi memungkirinya. Karena apa pun yang Anda rasa bisa jadi mengandung kebenaran...

Jika keputusan-keputusan dalam hidup ini didasari oleh kerja keras, nurani yang bersih, kemantapan hati, pertimbangan bijaksana, pemikiran logis dan realistis, entah kapan, bahagia pasti sudi mampir.

Happy Anniversary, Sweetheart.

140207  - 140612

Go Yogurt!

Hi everybody. This is May. Feeling like time going faster. The first thing I should doing is ... losing my weight. Huh. Oh come on you know that's it no easy but it's a must! Hup..Hup..Hup... I will start to control my food from tomorrow. Can you believe it? Hmm, exactly I don't really believe it. Haha.

Almost three weeks ago, Me and my little sister, Cindy, was going to Sam and Jolly Cafe soft opening. Thanks to mba Finny for the invitation :). Actually, mba Finny is one of my client hihi. So, it's a new restaurant that almost all of the menu made by yoghurt. For me, I don't really like yoghurt, I like something sweet than sour. BUT, they have a cool and colorful design on their store with the concept is Food AdFUNture by Sour Sally. If you looking for some place with new experience and new menu, you should go here :))

the appetizer

Na-Go-Yo (Nasi Goreng Yoghurt)

Yummy Dessert

 

colorful of macarons

Strawberry Yo-Tea on a jar

(forgot the name of this menu)

outdoor

the interior

Bring me home!

the toppings

My sist, Cindy, got this for home. Yo-Tea Mango and Yo-Stick. Yummy!                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                      

Everything Gonna Be Alright

Hola! Hoaam..Long time no write this blog. Truly, many things, stories and pictures that I want to share in this blog. Buuuut cause sometimes I'm too lazy so yaa just like you read now :p

First, I already make one decision of my life. If God want, it will be held on the beginning of next year. Hm.. maybe not only my decision but us. Hm.. not only us but our family. We plan but God will be decide.

Second, yesterday was my family name gathering or we usually called: Bona Taon Tampubolon. Tampubolon is my family name. Yes, I'm Bataknesse and I proud of it. In this event, every people who have same family name are invited to come and enjoy the party together/ We are dancing, eating, laughing and also gossiping hihi. Tampubolon is be divided into three part; Mataniari, Rajaniapul, and ... Hmm I think I'm forget the last part. OMG... hahha. I'm sorry. I will tell you if I'm already know :P

So here some picture, not describe about that party but I want to introduce my cousin. His name is Farel. He has a chubby cheek and big stomach, wohooo.

me. Farel. my sist

OMG >.<

Good news:
I'm receiving an invitation to come in soft opening Sam and Jolly at Central Park on 27 April (6 pm - 8 pm). Thanks to mba Finny :)
 

 Good night, people!

Me too.

Everybody have they own want. Me too. Now, how to combine my want, his want, and they want? When everybody want not in one line, what is the best solution? My head almost explode cause of that. This is my life. I'm undergoing it but I can't decided my solution alone. I'm just trying to do the best and make everybody happy. Me too.


Happy weekend, people! :)

 

Hello, Sing!

I'm feel so lucky. For almost only six months I have been worked at this office, I can enjoyed a nice trip to Singapore. This is my first time too to going aboard. and also for free too. Yay! Yes, this is office outing program. Because my office is just a small company and only have a few employee. Ehm, I think not a few but only seven person. Hahaha. It's include our office boy and messenger. Plus one with the owner. Enjoy.. :)